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It is actually alright to feel proud about your blog because it is the fruit of your labor and the result of so many sleepless nights and bumming around in front of the computer. It is understandable. But what is really annoying is when someone goes beyond the norm and become one of those who I psychiatrically categorize as Blog Narcissists. Are you one of them? I just happen to be triggered by what my friend wrote just a few days ago, about her annoyance with those bloggers who actually ask you to vote for them without really introducing themselves properly or should I say you don’t know them from Adam and they begin to act as if they are that close to you. I totally agree with her take and I can actually relate with her rants. For the past months I always receive such narcissistic proposals mostly in blogcatalog and mybloglog about their supposedly beautiful blogs. What these blog narcissist tends to do is they add you in their friends list and they will leave tons of messages on your blogcatalog account and ask you to vote for them on this or that awards, contest etcetera. Heck I don’t even know those awards exists.
To put it plainly, The term narcissism means “love of oneself”, and refers to the set of character traits concerned with self-admiration, self-centeredness and self-regard. The name was chosen by Sigmund Freud, from the Greek myth of Narcissus, who was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. While almost everyone is narcissistic to some degree, certain forms of narcissism can be highly dysfunctional, and are classified as pathologies such as the Narcissistic Personality Disorder and malignant narcissism.
Well, to be “excessively” in love with your self in terms of your blog and your achievements in the blogosphere is I guess, and appropriately can be coined without formal insertion to the psychiatric curriculum, as blog narcissism.
In my years of blogging and blog hopping, I have seen so many types of blog narcissism in existence but inany form not in the bowels of psychology and psychiatry textbooks. Actually to love your blog and promote them is in itself orderly or in layman’s term, natural and normal. But going beyond the norm and taking it extremely as something that a normal or “sane” person whom you know would not do (or for heaven’s sake you can’t imagine seeing yourself doing it) is actually an indication that something has really loosened up on their screwed heads.
These are the types of Blog Narcissists that I stumbled upon for years here in the blogosphere. They are not myths, they are actually living souls hiding on the guise of their self proclaimed beautiful blogs. I took the liberty of documenting each of their types. Let’s just hope you are not one of them:
The Link Monsters
They are the first on the list because they are the most subtle. They visit blog after blogs and they spent most of their time online blog hopping and asking their blogs to be linked on your blogroll rather than writing something worth reading on their blogs. Their famous line is “want to link exchange?” and their favorite area of operation is someone else’s CBOX and Guestbook. If you have neither on your blog, they will contact you via your facebook, blogcatalog and mybloglog and give you their favorite dialogue. Alternatively, if they are too desperate, they will leave a comment that is off topic and will just ask you to link them up as if telling an alien invader “beam me up”. If you fall on their seduction, and you are too kind to be stupid, they will immediately vanish just after you linked them and you will never hear from them again till the end of time.
Cure: tell them “sorry, I don’t know you. I just add blogs that I practically like”. And they will not bother or visit your blog anymore as long as you live.
Promo Gurls and Blog Mascots
These are the bloggers who are very anal-retentive when it comes to updating their readers. They never seem to be contented with their readers subscribing to their feeds and will somehow clog your mybloglog and blogcatalog with their endless updates and beg you to read their stuff when in fact you already did, because you are not an RSS feed illiterate. Even if you constantly delete their messages on your account, after seconds or so, their messages will pop up again and you will spend the rest of your lifetime deleting their seemingly infinite cycle of blog updates. They are the cyber archetypes of promo girls annoying you with the latest products wearing only skimpy skirts and shirts which might as well have them carry a Round 3 cardboard just like in a boxing match and acts like mascots who are not adorable but just scare the hell out of your kids. You see their avatars as a spam advert rather than a representation of their blog. Their updates are more prolific than their blog entries themselves that when you gather and document them all, you can create a whole new blog just for their updates.
Cure: remove yourself from their community list and never ever join again their subscriber’s list.
The Aristocratic Hyenas
These are the bloggers who are delusional and drunk with their power and might. This is what I like to label as the High and Mighty bloggers who are direct descendants of Chronus and Gaea and sees themselves as Zeus, Poseidon and Hera of the blog world. They like to play gods in their own right. They like to meddle on other’s opinions and right to exist that if you directly contradict them, thunderbolts and tsunami will plague your blog. They will scorn you to death as if you are the stupidest among the bloggers. Their ethereal world is not of this earth but in their own created imaginations. You cannot enter their realm unless you wear a cape, a crown of gold bedecked with jewels and a scepter in all of your unused limbs. They do not walk, but floats in the air. Their feet are too immaculate to touch the ground. Opinion and blog content belongs only to them and to no one else. Your crown made of thin can or cans from “derigold”, would not work for them (Haha Reynz di ka pwede don). They are pack of hyenas that will devour anyone out of their circle. If one is attacked, be assured that all of them will come back with ten thousand folds of viciousness. They see other bloggers not belonging to their kind as outcasts. These are the bloggers who are so snobbish that they eternally suffer from torticollis or stiff neck. These are people who never accepted that they once started as a nobody and refused to acknowledge their humble origin.
Cure: Never force yourself in joining their circle. Create or find your own community and do not be dragged to their delusions. Your content might be more worth reading than their nauseating self-praise.
Self Righteous Monarchs
If you are lucky to have people who agree and disagree with you on some points, well be thankful because your readers are normal people. The characteristics of people who are self-righteous are I think self-explanatory. They tend to argue and argue and argue until you get lost of the main issue and be dragged to their ridiculous and twisted views of everything, concrete and abstract wise. They are too much to take for they will exert all their efforts just to convince everybody that he is right and you are not. These people are so shallow that a little bit of sucking and riding on their opinions will actually pacify them and will make them think that you are on their side even though it is very obvious that you are just pulling their heads off. They are so ashamed in admitting that they actually make mistakes that they tend to risk their image of being so passively aggressive and blatantly arrogant rather than bowing their heads in humility. They are more likely to thrive in the courts of the Aristocrat Hyenas and somewhat live and gratify themselves by mingling only with those who share their beliefs no matter how ostentatious they maybe. These people devour other people who cannot stand for themselves and are afraid of confrontation. But whenever these people find their match who often outdo their reasoning powers, they don’t bend. They just blurt the classic line of “you have a point, but…” or “I know where you are coming from, but…”. The word “but” is their ultimate escape to everything rational and logical. Therefore, they actually live their lives on the edge of their own butts, enjoying when people are actually climbing their butts and having them suck it for all eternity.
Cure: tell them face-to-face “Yeah, keep saying that to yourself” and turn around and laugh because the only antidote for these pseudo-intellectuals is actually laugh at them lest you become angry and enter the dark side of self-indulgence.
The Witch Queen
These bloggers are the green eyed monsters, the jealous types and the envious archetypes of the wicked queen who tried to poison Snow White out of covetousness. They have this magical mirror, invisible to your naked eyes and installed on the front pages of their blogs, which they frequently consult and ask, “Mirror, Mirror on the Monitor, who is the fairest blog of them all”. They get angry when someone is credited for an awesome work or if a blogger becomes famous or is recognized in a certain community. They will just stop visiting your blog, will not answer your messages and will just be cold and icy on their treatment with you. You will not know what happened and they will just dismiss everything as something you just imagined where in fact they are boiling angry with you just because you became popular or you gained a lot of friends in the process and she did not. What these people really want is your attention. They want you to always visit their blogs and tell them how good and nice they are, how wonderful their blogs are and how beautiful they are in and out of the blogosphere. In short, you become a rebound or a nicotine patch for the incompetence and adequacy of her magic mirror. Be very cautious with these people because they always have a poisoned apple prepared for you and tucked inside their basket full of goodies.
Cure: Ignore them and don’t patronize them until they become so psychotic and start to ask the magic mirror: “What is wrong with me?”
Reciprocal Suckers
These are descendants of leeches and janitor fishes who suck your blog’s life essences in exchange of sucking theirs. These people are really good in sucking as long as they benefit from you. They are the total epitome of the axiom “I’ll scratch your back, you scratch mine”. They are afraid to contradict you in anyway lest you contradict them. They will visit your blogs as long you visit theirs. They will stop reading your blog when you stop reading theirs even though you are not living inside the cyberspace 24/7 of your life and have actual life to live with. They will promote your blog in exchange of something in return. Helping others without expecting in return is totally beyond them.
Cure: stop doing favors for them when you see that they are just helping you because they benefit from you. Make sure also that you help others without expecting anything in return so that you may not go down to their level.
INM Syndrome
INM syndrome is what I coined as “I Nominate Myself Syndrome”. These are the worse kind because they are totally pre-occupied of their self-worth, of their self-indulgence and their self-beauty. They lift their own chairs without any reservations that others might be better than them. They see themselves as superiors in a subtle kind of way. They are very impatient of waiting for others to praise them for their work that they often blog about themselves, themselves and themselves. Their favorite movie is “Me, Myself and I”. There are lots of blogs out there who are joking about how grand they are which is totally acceptable because it is their style of writing and as I may add, hilariously funny. But these INMS people are darn different because when they say they are the best, they are indeed dead serious without batting an eyelash. They always nominate themselves in different blog and web awards and they ridiculously finance their own nomination fees. They create ambiguous accounts so that it will not seem that they nominated or voted themselves. Don’t get me wrong, it is okay to blog about your achievements and your nominations, but please do not nominate yourself or ask someone to nominate you. Wait for someone to voluntarily raise you up on the pedestal. These people lack self-confidence and are totally living on acknowledgements and praise from others. Most of these bloggers win awards not because the people like their stuff, but because of connections and self love, and the hunger to be known and to be famous. It is nicer to receive an award if people are rooting for you instead of rooting for yourself. These people are versatile: They are the athletes and at the same time their own raggedy tags of cheerleaders — “Go Go Go Me. I Can Do It! I Am The Best. Rah Rah Rah, Sis Boom Bah!” Hahaha Sira-ulo!
Cure: Give them a trophy to replace their security blanket so that they can take it everywhere they go even on their beds. LOL
Next time, examine yourself, reflect on your blog experience, and maybe somehow you’ll see your own self just as others see you. There is nothing wrong in loving a blog, just don’t get too carried away.
About the Catholic Blogger
Romuald Matthieson, a.k.a. "bluepanjeet" has been writing in cyber space since 2005. In 2006, he jump-started his Catholic blogging a few years even before the Catholic Church realized the importance of utilizing social networks in spreading the Gospel. In 2007, in response to a realization of the growing need for Catholic Bloggers online, he officially launched his own self-hosted Catholic blog and called it "On The Wings Of My Dream" or simply OTWOMD which is a metaphor of his favorite psalm in the Bible, Psalm 63. Since then he has been blogging, and sometimes podcasting, for the Catholic Church using his enthusiasm in the New Media, his inclination on visual and digital arts, his passion for the written word and his love for the Catholic Church. You can follow Rom's tweets on Twitter @rommatthieson
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hahaha! wa me say sa entry mo! ano kaya kahuyin ko to’s pag-isa isahin! nanga-ngailangan ako nang pang in between sa mga proyekto ni Ka Pepe! tamang tama toooo magagamet koooo ! hahahaha
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haha no problem inang, you can axe everything you need here para may pambato ka na sa palito at posporo template ni diwa LOL
Oist nag-aabang ako mamaya. 2 hours na lang. nagpapalipas ako ng oras sa youtube para di ako makatulog. LOL
may itatanong ako on air mamaya sayo during the interview kaya kelangan sasagutin mo hahaha. Kagulo to pag nagkataon LOL nakahanda na ang recording studio ko hahaha
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
can i add something if you don’t mind? The word is derived from a Greek myth. Narcissus was a handsome Greek youth who rejected the desperate advances of the nymph Echo. As punishment, he was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Unable to consummate his love, Narcissus pined away and changed into the flower that bears his name, the narcissus. (does this makes me an aristocrat hyena?,LOL)…nice item!!!
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Haha di naman LOL. You don’t want to meet these hyenas… they are really vicious.
Actually in the original painting above, echo was shown. I just cropped it because i want to focus on narcissus.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
Aba teka bigla ko naisip, ako pala dapat ang nahingi sayo ng template haha. Who am I to supply the queen with templates for ka pepe? LOL. Lalo na dun sa dale mo kay totoy nog-nog na kumontra sa entrecard haha! That is one heck of a word power.. very witty. tawa ako ng tawa kay nog-nog, di nakasagot.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
Sandali,nakaliumutan ko magpasalamat haha. Thank you for the addendum that you made. Now we know na naging bulaklak pala si Narcissus haha. Ngayon ko lang nalaman.
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I guess it tells the truth about “us” bloggers, even if it’s hard to admit, we blog because we know someone out there will read. We link up because we know it’s the trend, we post photos because we know “it’s my blog, I can post anything I want”, I think that’s the reality of blogging. Without all these, why do we blog?
On the sidenote, I find it really hard to believe that there are indeed bloggers who likes to think that their blog is better than the rest, it’s as if the person is screaming “LOOK AT ME”!
ay naku nakaka inis talaga lahat ng binanggit mo. i personally am dismayed sa #1. my god! if you want to link me kasi nagustuhan mo pinagsusulat ko, then link me! wag na magpropose ng exchange link!
if i discover someone linked to me i do return the favor. pero if one year na and wala naman akong nakikitang signs (i.e. comment) na binabasa nya ako, inaalis ko na din. i personally dont like a very long blogroll.
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well, another well said piece! mabuti na lang i have never met such bloggers on the air
basta ako yung blog ko under repair, wahhh.
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Mwahahaha Blu!! wa me say!!Bow bow!!
marami akong nakabanggang mga ganyan.May isa at dalawa na nga akong nasupalpal.Hindi na ako nakatiis kasi,madali pa naman ako mahayblad lalo na kung bilog buwan,lol yabang eh tapos nang da down pa ng kapwa!
Truth is,tagal ko ng gusto isulat ito.Anatomy of Bloggers kunbaga lol Natuyuan ako ng english hahaha thanks kapatid for putting all these in writing!Great post!Mahimbing tulog ko mamayang gabi
btw, I copy few line from ambo’s interview,if its okies? titirahin ko lang si ambo
That’s it! I just came to tell you since you haven’t visited my site, I’m not visiting yours! There
LOL! Seriously, I saw it on my feed and I was like, what’s he talking about? Just dropping by and saying hi! –Poetic Morena
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ahemmmm, ubo..ubo..si kuya blue para meron copy non ha?
kuya absent ako kanina don sa class ng inang reyna, pano ba toh? laki talaga ng problema ko eh kanina pa ako paikot ikot at pabalik balik baka sakali makakita khit pirated copy.
kuya blue kung tulog ka pa maari ba gumising ka na at upload mo na un?
bluep, wala me masay – bukod sa startstruck ako sa mga greek gods na sinabi mo.hehe. nagiisip na ko sa last part, teka alin ba ako dito? Fairest of them all pa naman ang title mo sa akin dati.hahaha. but thanks for being part of your blogroll, and one of those few who gave me a nice welcome here in blogosphere!
the best blog talaga to, ever! and the best blogger in the whole http://www.blogosphere!kahit todo ang music, which I love! bring it on bluep!
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haha likewise here.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
That’s true K. I agree. I just wish all of us will co-exist here without any kind of discrimination or exclusivity. There are actually new bloggers out there who have good reads and contents.
and i like what you said when “without all of these, why do we blog?” — these realities makes blogging more adventurous and interesting. Makulay ang buhay sa blogging!
You know sometimes, I wish some bloggers are like you, ronnie, jaypee and fruity, who were my first readers and who welcomed me in the blogosphere with open arms.
I always tell the new bloggers all of my experiences with you and the rest of my first ever readers, how you all treated me so warmly when I was just a neophyte. It is forever etched on my memory and I will never forget that kindness ever.
Kaya if there are bloggers out there who are worth my priority and praise, it is you my first readers. without all of you di ako ma-aadik dito sa blog at di ako magkaka inspiration.
after months of existence here buhay parin kayo at nakiki-lakbay sa gulo nga king buhay. Kahit medyo hectic ang sked ko nagbabasa pa rin kayo. You do not know how it means to me.
you are already part of OTWOMD history kuya K.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
Ako naman I just link others kahit di nila ako ilink. Basta gusto ko content mo kahit di mo ako ilink okay na yun.
naku dami sa akin nagpropropose ng exchange link, pero hindi naman sa pang-iisnab, kaya lang everytime I add them di mo na makita kahit anino. I felt I’m just being used to boost their technorati authority.
Pero if someone links me, without my awareness, inaadd ko agad kasi it mean they are sincere intheir linking and not just to boost their authorities.
Brods, di na nga ako naglolog-on sa blogcatalog at mybloglog kasi naiinis lang ako sa mga nagmemessage sa akin ng update nila at exchange links. Okay lang sana if once in a while pero por dios por santo, minu-minuto ata kinukulit ako na iboto ko sila at ireview ko blog nila. Ang kakati, di mga makapag-antay mahalin blog nila haha. Ala-hoy! hahaha
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haha lucky you nanay kengs mababait mga nakakasalamuha mo. salamat at nagkaroon ng WPP. Blessing talaga yang grupo nating yan.
Bakit under repair blog mo? Nahack din? lol
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
hahaha. Saludo talaga ako sayo ate cheh! hahaha Ako nga nagtitimpi lang at ayaw ko namang ilabas pagiging bully ko satotoong buhay dito sa blogosphere haha. Yung is nga sinabihan ako na religious daw blog ko tapos minura ko daw sya. ano ako kako, Robot? hahaha nagagalit din ako. mabuti kung tuod ako, yun pa!
kala ata ng mga yun eh santo ako LOL.
Isulat mo para may other side of the coin.
ako, block lang ang katapat nila haha! sira-ulo na nga ako, dadag-dag pa sila dito LOL
Tao po ako, tao! hindi bato! haha
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
haha. sorry my poetic morena i just came from a very long hiatus. I know that eventhough we don’t frequent each other’s blog, there is a mutual admiration and I doubt it that petty visiting rights (haha) like this would break our friendship.
By the way i would introduce you to my readers – Poetic Morena is claudia. A poet blogger who is now assigned in Korea. She is not Filipino but a Columbian (am I right?) who has a heart and beauty of a true-blue Filipina.
After so many months you are still here reading my crap. haha I think we should have a friendship song –> “Through The Months”. LOL
thanks for dropping by my very dear friend.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
Kapatid, wikipedia lang yung greek mythology haha!
haha wag naman, hindi naman ito best blog. Channel lang ito ng pag-ka psychotic ko lol. San ka naman nakakita ng blog na religious tapos dadalihan ng picture ng lasing haha.
wag kayo maniniwala sa pinagsususulat ko, resulta lang yan ng pagka-buwang ko. lol
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
Hi bluep! Salamat sa pakikinig sa Usapang Pinoy. Sa uulitin ha. By the way, I created a podcast for it. It’s on A Pinay In England right now.
About your post – superb! I heartily agree with the different types of bloggers. The only group I have truly been happy with in the Philippines is WordPress Pinoys – although not all are as friendly as our little circle. (We missed you in December! Make sure you join us in May.)
After all, it is only blogging. Why do some people put themselves on a pedestal or think of themselves as lord and lady of everything they survey??? And a lot of them don’t even have the courtesy to reply to my comments or visit my blog when I have visited theirs several times and left meaningful comments. These people I’m talking about are the same people Malen and the rest actually don’t like, too.
joy
A Pinay In England
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Haha Doc I enjoyed every minute of it especially the vintage songs haha That was very witty of you Doc. Pasensya na at magugulo kami last night on air kasi ba naman yung ininterview mo eh isa pang pasimuno sa kaguluhan haha. Interviewhin ka ba naman sa sarili mong radio program haha. If only we have an access to phone in questions, pihado mas riot yun haha. I hope may part 2 tapos itackle yung mga hirap na dinaanan ni Reynz dito sa blogosphere. ang ganda ng istorya nun haha.
WPP is what I call the seedbed of potentials. There are so many great bloggers out there who are not yet recognized and if you will read their blogs they really have contents. Yung iba siguro nahihiya pa lang.
I wish our circle would grow because as I see it we are not exclusive naman. everybody is warmly welcomed. The more the merrier. Mas sira-ulo mas okay. WPP members are really supportive. In the contest of the 2008 humor blog award of kwentong barbero, most of the bloggers in the top 10 are WPP members. Ganun ka lakas ang hatak ng WPP pagdating sa suporta.
That is also what K said above and they are very true. It just so happens that most of them live in mega manila kaya they have the chance to parade themselves in different social climbing activities but the heck, they are as rude as Jonah jameson.
ganyan ang naranasan ko nung una doc. akala ko dito sa blogosphere ay welcome lahat yun pala sila-sila lang. kaya I’m very happy that Chuckie created the WPP because the common newbies and aspiring bloggers build their confidence with others like them in WPP circle. I suggest nga na dapat may WPP awards din para naman ma-acknowledge yung mga kapatid nating bago pa lang nag bo-blog.
The people that malen and the rest are pertaining to are also the same hackers and hecklers of my blog and photos. Block lang ang tinapat ko sa kanila kasi this blog is for everyone who “reads” and not for scumbags and delusionals who only blog about themselves.
Like what I said before Doc on my previous post– Goliath Will Fall!!! That’s for sure. No one in history who is drunk with power have withstood the fall of their might.
I will make it sure that I can attend the EB. Ngayon pa lang tsek na ang schedule ko para dun.
bluepanjeet’s last blog post..?My Blog Is Beautiful And So Am I? Yeah Right!: All About Blog Narcissism
LOL!! Yes, I still read your crap! No worries, my crap is always there come any time! Thank you for the heart of a Filipina, I appreciate it, althought it’s Colombiana, Columbia is a city in the US. No worries! I think it’s been a year already, Blue…wow time flies. Anyways, my hugs and wish for many blessings to all your readers and your beautiful family. I’ll be out till Valentines Day (2/14) woohoo!
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ikaw talaga…BINIDA mo na naman ako sa blog mooooooooooo
eh ako lahat yang pinagsasabi mo ehhhhhhhh
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hahaha sino nagsabi sayo si Angelita? ahaha. di ah kaw talaga. Yan kasi si reynz at si _ _ _ _ _ lang mahal mo kaya pati ako pinagdududahan mo hahaha.
hindi ko maaring gawin yan sayo sapagkat may nakahanda akong espesyal para sayo. hindi ito ang oras mo. mas magarbo ang nakalaan para sayo aking best prend haha. diba ako ang president ng pans klab mo? hahaha
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LOL i thought you were from Columbia the country. My apologies my poetic morena. Thank you so much. Likewise to your family.
have a date on valentines? who’s the lucky guy? hope he is as handsome as me hahaha. just kidding.
Pax et Bonum
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ahahahha…
ayuf, pans klab ka jan. ihahanda ko ang sarili ko sa kahiya-hiyang post na gagawin mo…yan ka na naman…hhhhahahaha..babasagin mo na namn ng salamin…ahahahahahah
143 bluep…uyy you consider me as a best prend? hahaha
REGALO KO MUNA!!!!
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bluep, thanks for enlightening me. i never knew that there were so many types of bloggers.
i actually encountered one of them recently… he left a comment on my blog so i was curious as to who he was. when i opened the link it was some sort of promotion or voting. anyway, obviously i’m so naive.
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hi blue,
hehehe, kahawig ito doon sa sinulat ko na bragging to the max. o di ba’t narcist din ang mga taong ubod ng yabang. halos aakapin nila mismo ang sarili nila tapos sabay sabing “oh how i love myself” at kong ano pang mga kaekekan diyan.
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I never thought of bloggers as narcissistic, most of the ones I know like having a place to vent and share there lives with people who are interested. Though I am sure that with just like anything there are those who just like to hear themselves.
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MOI? I only meet nice, uber social people! HAHAHA! HINDI AKO MAKA=RELATE. HEHEHE! WALA TALAGA AKONG KAAWAY HAHAHAHAHAHAA!!!!
Grabeyshus to the maximum level ang entry na too!! Pinapatamaan yata akoooo!!! HAHAHA
Hoy! I tag you… just want to know what weird things you do sa bookid ninyo! hahahaah
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korekness kapatid!
kaya nga dinelete ko na un cbox ko puro na lang “great blog, want to link xchange” amf
ngeks! anubayan kafated na panjeeeeeeeeeeetttttttttttt,
kababasa ko lang ng blog ni dandang reynz..ang anghang grabeh..tapos ito pa parang sile sa anghang lol!! teka teka iniisip ko kung nasan ako dyan ..parang lahat yata ako yan lol!!!..yung crockpot magandang paglutuan yan kapag kailangan ng slow cooker….lol!!
isa pa isa pa kapatid na panjeeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttttttt!!!
yung entry ko heheheh ayan na ..nag aadvertise na ko ng entry ko for today..tara bisitahin mo ako heheheheh
narcissus..teka tama ba yan lol!
nandun ang superfriends kasama ang superstar lol!!!
hehehe para tuloy gusto ko ng tanggalin din yung cbox ko ha lol!
This is why Reynz is definitely coming back on the show. We have so much to talk about still. Of course we’ll try to be mindful of others, but in the process of airing certain sentiments, we may inadvertently make someone uncomfortable. But hey, that’s the way it goes.
I’m really excited about the May EB, although first you have the February 24th with Kengkay!
I’m the same – I blog because I see it as a tool to make new friendships. I have nothing to prove to people, nor do I have any interest at all in sabotaging anyone. It’s only blogging for crying out loud. But I suppose for those hurtful people, it’s their bread and butter and they want to stake their claim on this what they think is rightfully theirs. Oh well.
By the way, please go to Norwich Daily Photo and read my post today, Jan 22. Got something for you!
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ay same here bluepogi I just link others kahit di nila ako e-link…gaya nitong blog mo…tagal ko na ni link hindi mo pa alam he! he!…yung din kay Ronnie nung nasa blogspot pa sya…and so on… basta nagustuhan ko yung site nili-link ko yon agad para madali mabalikan diba…
and I can really say na never ako nag pa link back…I keep my sites up with or without an audience…so kung gusto nila thanks, kung ayaw nila thanks din…pero I don’t mind people asking for link exchanges din naman…either or ok lang sa akin
Iba, iba lang tayo kaya nga enjoy eh di ba he! he!…and besides the online world is such a big place anyway…so there’s a lot of room for all of us naman eh…Narcissist man or not…
hay naku basta ako itong site mo I already know by heart, and I always follow my skippy heart… so kahit walang link mabilis balikan at palaging bina-balik balikan he! he! TC dear kapatid pogi
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Thanks for the mention kapatid. I am not as articulate as you… grabe, i love this post! Hehehe
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hehe syempre. Ikaw ang pokwang ng blog life ko haha
uyyy na-143 na sya haha. Guard your bleeding heart hahaha
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Chino, sadly they are in existence. But its part of blogging eh haha. You’ll gonna love blogging. Para ka nasa mental, madaming sira ulo na tulad ko.
Ingat jan parekoy
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haha. May tama po kayo! kanya kanya po ata tayo ng katopakan dito sa blogosphere eh. kanya kanyang gimik.
sa akin okay lang na gumawa ang isang blogger ng isang gimik just make it sure that he has his own taget audience at nasa context.
Hindi yun alam na nga na personal blog at walang advert, oofferan pa ng kung ano anong sweepstakes at pa-raffle
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hello.
I respect your opinion. Maybe because you haven’t met one or haven’t experienced it yourself.
You cannot in anyway or in any right to disprove what has been experienced by others.
Though I very well know and understand what you are aiming at (or maybe trying to convey) or the person who you are referring to, yet let’s just comprehend that others are really not that intuitive and should really dig a little deeper when it comes to openness to reality.
Thanks for dropping by
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I agree 100% you are indeed an instrument of peace and a channel of harmony haha.
Yes boss, nanginginig pa.
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haha classic lines yan. pede yang gawing template kay don pepe.
Meron pa mga classic lines:
- nice blog
- nice reads
- interesing site
- hi! Hello! Blog hopped. Want to link exchange?
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Haha namiss ko palahaw mo ate melai.
may almuranas kasi ako kaya minsan puro ma-aanghang ang nalabas sa blog na to
isa pa? o ayan ate meron na. mas ma-anghang yan kesa sa dito LOL.
daan ako bahay mo jaz-a-minit
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Musta ate sashing. Hindi ako articulate kundi ma-culate (makulit)
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tara pahulaan natin kay manang bola haha
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uy sensya na dear becca. di ko nakita agad tong comment mo. dumerecho agad ako sa ilalim eh.
haha talaga palang matagal na kitang fan. Ako? “late have I loved thee” sabi nga ni San agustin.
same here. i don’t really expect my friends to link me back. basta na link ko ayos nasa akin. Tsaka ako, i don’t mind them ifthey would not comment on my blog. secondary lang naman ang comments ha.ang talagang passion ko lang ay magsulat. for me i think it is enough. fulfilled na ako dunkahit walang comments. alam ko kasi na marami nagbabasa kahit patago. minsan nga through feed reader lang eh.
pero tinanggal ko yung full feed ko kasi diko makita kung sino nadalaw sa blog ko kaya lahat ng entries ko ngayon excerpts lang makikita sa feed reader. mas maganda kasi kita mo mga pinanggagalingan ng bisita mo.
napangiti naman ako sa sinabi mo na you know my blog by “heart” haha.
sana lang lumipat ka kahit pano sa wordpress ng makapag comment naman ako. yun lang wish ko. o kaya palitan mo theme mo kasi baka nasa sa theme yun. feelingko palagi outcast ako sa mundo mo haha.
pero lam mo hirap din ng sitwasyon ko kasi i always get into trouble whenever i post some entries. di ko naman mapigilang pagsusulat ko kasi yun ang takbo ng konsensya ko. tulad nito. another controversy na naman ito lol.
sometimes I just want to keep my mouth shut para na walang wala masagasaan pero di pwede kasi dun ako natrain sa loob. kaya I just tamper my honesty with prudence and tact.
btw, ipapa laminate ko tong commentmo kasi this by far is your longest comment hahaha. kakatuwa naman.
you make me smile
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O di ba, nabuhay ang dugo ko na fagod na fagod dahil entry mo…tumira ka na naman! I love it!
naalala mo yung ‘xlink tayo’ na sinabi ko comment ko before? natadtad na anman ako nyan at bumigay lola mo…matapos sila ma i link, naglahong parang mga usok! mga talipandas ha ha ha!
at ang mga ‘best of the best’ cure ko dyan: *Thess places palm to their faces and says Talk to mah hand!”
Indoy, teka hindi ko alam result mo? ibulong mo naman sa email ko please? out of town muna ako , pagod na pagod…see u when I get back.
Hey! I never saw this post before so I wasn?t aware that you?re trying to gain popularity from my keyword ? narcissism. Now I know why you?re PR4 and I?m N/A. hahaha! Idol ko ?yang si Narcissus kaya wag na kayong magtaka kung magin bulaklak ako baling araw but if I do, I want to be a Venus Fly Trap o kaya yung blood-sucking plant ni Kurama sa Ghostfighter. Hahaha!
Anyway, kaya ko tinanggal yung BlogCatalog at MyBlogLog sa blog ko dahil bukod sa pampabagal na ng loading, walang sawa ang dating ng email notice sakin from those sites that someone added me as friend tapos katakut-takot na invites pa. Pero hindi ko pa nabubura yung account ko dun kaya patuloy parin ang dating ng mga messages.
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I’ve just been told to read your blog by our common friend
And he is right you really are a good writer.
I like the entry for Narcissists, it reminds me of some one i used to know.
He’s full of pretensions, denial and lies.
Anyway…
I love your work!
btw mr. glorioso says hi
Haha para akong adik ate thess palaging tumitira haha. Per wala naman dito sa mga kaibigan ko sa blogroll.. puro outsiders mga yan haha.
naku delete lang katapat nyang mga xlink na yan LOL
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Hehe ibang kalse talaga si Mix, may free promo ako LOL
Geli welcome to my humble blog.
Reminds us of so many bloggers right? minsan nga para silang gremlins na dumadami.
Magkasama ba kayo ni Mico sa Dubai? Ingat kayo and add kita sa blogroll ko ha. Malilimutin kasi ako eh.
hahaha ganun ba. LOL
Buti Venus fly trap hindi yung Raflessia haha
Sino naman si Kurama? hahaha
Pareho tayo pare haha. Mga spammer baga. May mga pending friend invites pa nga rin ako sa CP ko sa MBL na di ko inaapprove at puro mga spammer ata LOL